Freestyle Friday/Self Help for Pretty Girls Part Two

Happy Friday! If your week was hectic and chaotic you may have been wondering like me, if you’d make it through at all. Well, just call me the Friday Fairy and deliverer of good news that you can now rest assured, as you have surely arrived. In honor of our having made it to Friday, I am free-styling it today. Free-styling my clothing, my thinking, my writing, that’s right, the whole 9. Now, just for a moment, let’s think about how much power and liberty the word “Free” contains.
Not imprisoned or enslaved; being at liberty. Not controlled by obligation or the will of another, Not affected or restricted by a given condition or circumstance, Unobstructed; clear, open; frank. To relieve of a burden, obligation, or restraint.

I absolutely love this word. I have found freedom in my relationship with God, freedom in my life and the choices I’ve made, finally, freedom in being me. If you are bound by disorganization and reckless chatter, freedom will be hard to achieve. However, if you develop or even borrow your own set of Me-isms to help you gain your freedom, you will be well on your way. Since it’s Friday, I’ve looked into the archives and wanted to share these things with you.

Rule #6 for maintaining a healthy you from the inside out. Loyalty: not only should you have a sense of loyalty to someone, you must also be loyal to yourself. Don’t be so quick to let other’s definitions of you make you betray your self. You are a viable human being, and giving up is disloyalty against oneself. Stay true and loyal to yourself first, and then to others, this way you are being the most authentic you can be.

Rule #7 for maintaining a healthy you from the inside out. Happiness starts from within. You should never expect another to make you happy, nor blame them for your unhappiness. Set a vision for yourself, then stop at nothing to achieve it. Keep self- motivated, looking towards the most important parts of you. Happiness is a state of mind, that you can achieve mainly because, it resides inside of you.

Rule #8 for maintaining a healthy you from the inside out
Don’t limit yourself in what it is that you can achieve in this life. Never tell yourself you can’t, because you can. Write a vision of what you truly want, believe that it’s achievable, and watch it come to fruition. Believe it.

Rule #9 for maintaining a healthy you from the inside out. Freedom- Don’t be bound by society, family, or others idea of who you should be. When you are true to yourself, you will inhabit the ability to be free. Some of us have no idea what it’s like to truly be free. Look first to your higher power and gain the strength needed to free yourself. Don’t be afraid, for those who truly love you, will accept you for who you are. When you remain true to yourself, you will be set free. This is when your best you will bloom and grow wild in the state of being free.

As always I pray that everyone will have an awesome and safe weekend!

Peace and blessings!

Here’s my freestyle Friday look:
High heels High Hops top- H&M
Blazer w/faux leather- thrifted
Skirt- old thrift(Too big, cut and stitched the bottom
Belt- Arden B
Boots- 9 west
Necklace-bday gift
Arm candy- Various











  1. julia williams said:

    Loved the look for today. The way I like to look. Rule #9,loved it. So many times missed understood. Meaning well,but to some,don’t get it.

  2. Michelle said:

    Great outfit!

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    Contest Begins Saturday November 19th and ends Monday November 27th 9pm EST

  3. Awesome! Good luck Michelle. Thanks for entering and thanks for stopping by! I appreciate you! 🙂

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